Relationship and a TREE

A plant needs soil, water and sunlight everyday.

A relationship needs 3 important daily ingredients – Communication, Sight and Touch.

If any one of the need is not adequate, the plant starts shrinking and eventually dies off.

In the olden days, People living away from their families for years together having minimal communication when there is no sight or touch involved, their relationship was mediocre.

In the recent information age, with the latest technologies people can live far away from their families for years together with complete access to communication and seeing each other over internet, chatting, talking etc. But there is no touch or feeling in it.

Some of them end up having a second relationship where there is a touch because humans need touch. Most of them not necessarily second relationship but love for material, position, money etc which can replace relationship.

When all the 3 ingredients are supplied regularly, the plant grows daily and one day it becomes the tree.

A tree no more in need of daily care, it is self sufficient in itself to get all the sunlight, water by growing roots deep into the earth.

Till the relationship becomes a TREE, provide the 3 ingredients- Communication, Sight and Touch. It takes years to build a TREE.

Allow relationship to grow into a Tree.