Arguments, Dissatisfaction, Disconnection in relationship

We all advice our loved ones, friends and all those people around us. Many times we get into arguments, Dissatisfaction, Disconnection in relationship.

The reason for this is before we advice ask yourself, Do I really follow it, Do I really live by it. Am I hypocrite? We don't have any rights to advice our spouse, parents, children, friends, those people around us until we really follow. When I walk the talk, then the advice, message will reach the other person.Then there is only love, compassion, peace, understanding in a relationship.

What we are going through in life is perfect and it is as per our choice

Every choice that we make at a very thought level and in action will have a consequence. Every choice has a consequence. So what we think and what we intended even if we don’t execute will have a consequence. Some time consequences come immediately some time they take their own time. But definitely they do come back if not in this life time. Once we execute a wrong thought either by intention or by action we get closed in the loop until the consequence comes back and releases us.

So never make any wrong thought/action. Even if you do so out of habitual, counter act it with positive thought/action and over the period we should get rid of it.
Only in meditation, when you become so silent the inner process starts initiating and slowly all the incomplete cycles of choices and consequences will get completed. This gives us liberation from the cycle of choice and consequences.

Life is not about having every quality

I may not be genius but I can be Genuine, I may not have passion but I can have persistence, I may not look good, but I can make others feel good in return I can look good to them.
Life is not about having every quality. Some of the qualities are born with us and some can be acquired.

3 Ways to Peace

1. Do not talk about people, Talk to People
Do not waste your time and energy talking about the people, behind the people to the people who cannot make any difference. You only can make big mockery out of it and no results.
Instead talk to the people if you have any concerns, issues. At least you let go off your irritation, suppression etc. This will give you lot of peace.

2. Talk to people as if you are talking to them for the last time
Ask yourself, if this is my last talk with this person, How I’m going to talk to this person?
This very idea of talking to people as if you are going to meet them for the last time will give you enormous energy and attentiveness. In the process make sure you always end your talk with pleasantness, happiness and love. This will give you more peace.

3. Delegation
Anything which others can do, then you should not be doing it. You need to delegate it. Focus on something which others cannot do and which is good for all.