Malamati- school of sufi thought

Malamati is one of the most significant school of thought and its basis now a recognised fact that -YOU are responsible for whatsoever you are. If you are miserable, you are responsible.In the beginning it hurts;the old joy of blaming others is gone. It is a joy when you can blame others.
Freudin psychoanalysis goes on blaming your environment,mother,father....Growth is possible only when you have taken the responsibility on yourself. In the beginning it hurts, soon you start feeling a new thrill, a new adventure, because soon you become aware that if you are responsible , then there is a way to go beyond. If others are responsible then there is no way to go beyond.
If you are creating your misery then you can uncreate it.